4 THINGS I WISH I KNEW BEFORE FALLING IN LOVE

1) PEOPLE DONT CHANGE. THEY JUST BECOME MORE OF WHAT THEY ALREADY WERE.


2) THERE'S NO HAPPY ENDINGS IN REAL LIFE. IF YOU ARE HAPPY, ITS NOT THE END. ITS NOT THE END UNTIL SOMEONE GET HURT!


3) EVERYONE IS COOL UNTIL YOU GET CLOSER.


4) EVERYONE IS AS HONEST AS HIS/HER OPTIONS. PEOPLE ALWAYS LEAVE WHEN THEY FIND BETTER OPTIONS.

BEHIND THIS SMILE, IS EVERYTHING U'L NEVER UNDERSTAND

KNOW THY SELF! THE HARDEST THING TO DO

Its funny how things work out in life. There is couple of times you got shaken to the maximum and wish like you never would have born. Only few times you experience some happy moments and they make you think life is worth living.

The devil might shake your existence for months and convince you that he is the boss, but in only one minute God reminds you that he still runs the place! Either way, we always find our hearts tested more than couple of times with some critical situations. Critics argue that, painful moments are necessary in ones life, for they tend to make us realize what we truly are. Only in those times, when we get tested, pushed to the limit and find what makes our hearts beat faster - can we find our true self.

Theoretically speaking, the assertion might be true, however, the experience contradicts it. You might live all your life thinking that you have it all figured out. That you have in your forehead the complete definition of who you really are, including your abilities, limitations and wildest fears. Suddenly, a situational or crisis might strike and confuse the whole perception you had and turn all those illusions into strange figure of you.

We like to think that we know ourselves so as it be easy to assume that we are responsible for the changes in our lives. I can’t speak for anybody, but my 25 years experience in this life has shown that my plans have a very small part in what actually happen in my life. It makes me believe that we live this life not as we want, but rather as it is. We just has to focus on doing the best at what we currently do and let it open some doors for us to proceed next step. I guess that’s the point where the concepts of fate and destiny have come into existence.

HELL IS NOT A PLACE YOU GO WHEN YOU DIE

IT'S THE FAILURE OF YOUR LIFE'S GREATEST AMBITIONS.

TWO DEVIDING PARTS OF LIFE

There are moments which mark your life.

Moments that you realize nothing will ever be the same any more.

And life is divided between two parts, before and after that moment.

Sometimes you can feel such moment coming.

At times like that, strong people keep moving forward anyway.

No matter what they are goin to find!

END OF THE WORLD PRESSURE

As I was watching the Islamic sermon on TV, the preacher was preaching on thirty signs of the end of the world, one of them being the increase in peoples’ participation in witchcraft, relying on superstition to solve their problems instead of holding their faith to God who is the supreme of all.
I strongly support this notion of depending on God for problems which is not humanly solvable, since he is above all. He is the creator and since no one can win against him, he is the best team to join. Unlikely, majority of the people in the society we live depend on very different things to run their daily lives. Most of the people embrace witchcraft on several matters like business success, relationships, man to man rivalries, and other areas of life which God was supposed to be the only point of reference when one needs help on.
For the first time, I look at the issue on broader level by trying to understand the reason why people fail to choose siding with God on solving different life tragedies. The ability to evaluate an issue on both sides, gives strength to any argument before reaching into conclusion on any matter.
When a person encounters a problem, he became desperate to find an immediate solution. God promises to help anyone with any problem, but he does that in his own way. He never allow anyone to give specifications and manuals on how he is supposed to help. And more than that, you don’t tell him when to deliver that help. For his ways, even no response to your call of help is considered some kind of help by the spiritual leaders trying to explain why God does what he does. They might say, by not directly respond to your call, he gives you a chance to see the matter in broad level and get wisdom to accordingly.
On another side, people have already in mind of what they want. And there are several means available to get exactly what they have In mind, within the exact limit of time of their choice. Since the problem is burning and there is a great personal need for solution, people goes for the helper who is seem to receive orders and deliver what is needed right on time. They doesn’t opt for God’s help as they know that it requires much of a sacrifice of not knowing what time will take for it to be answered, in which form is he going to answer or if he is going to answer it at all.
I don’t think they mean to disrespect him by choosing other means of solutions, but my point is, when encountered with a burning problem, the only priority is to solve the issue in immediately and accurately according to what their present mind state tells them at a particular moment. It is not that God’s solutions are not accurate, the people in trouble wants to do something about the trouble, because the history tells him that his actions can bring the solutions he desires, but God brings whatever solution he as Gog deems appropriate without any explanations. Even if he is going to offer exactly what you want, it is from the proper way of asking him, praying on a regular basis, being nice to the people, helping those in need and others which most of the people especially when in an immediate need of solving a problem, see it as a complicated way around

EVERYONE IS PERFECT, BUT THE WORLD

All our lives, we have been living with the notion that due to one unknown reason, there is no single perfect human being in the entire world. This assertion has become part of human reality and explains a lot when we fail to utilize our potentials in different situations. When we fail in something or wrong someone, we use the assertion to justify that something is wrong with us by putting the blame on the creator of our existence. We have to keep up with the boring and irritating friends, wives or husbands because its buried under our conscious that there is no perfect one around and if we let go of the ones we have, we will search our entire lives for the perfect ones, all coming up to nothing.
The best hidden fact about human beings is that we are so desperate to see things make sense. We can’t live with unknown for that long. Even if something is beyond our level of understanding, we force some vague explanation of it just to convince ourselves that everything is okay. No, sometimes it is not.
Human beings are very perfect creatures. Our creator had no business creating human race and bring them to the world before perfecting them. He couldn’t be that desperate. We are what he intended of us to be, we possibly can’t be what he didn’t intend us to be. For that, comes perfection, design something and actually make it. Maintaining that we are not perfect is just being unappreciative and that is disrespect to the one who gave us life.
The fact that sometimes we don’t get results related to the efforts we put into certain action or situation, has nothing to do with us being imperfect. It is time we start considering other possibilities. Like it might be that the reason sometimes bad things happen to good people is just the world isn’t perfect itself. That makes much sense for me. After all, good results are supposed to come out of good deeds. That is what the world is assumed to be doing, and is actually doing it sometimes. We see some hard workers awarded with good life, effectively studying learners awarded knowledge and good marks etc. The time different unexpected and crooked results happen out of good efforts, is the world proving its imperfection, not human.
Just think about it guys, this complex world as we know it, with every natural features in it like oceans, mountains, rocks etc, was made within seven days. Only seven days. Only seven days for complex thing like this. According to the greatness of the creator we have been told about in scriptures, this might be possible. The laws which govern this world, like Flotation, Gravitation, and so many others which control every minute aspect of our lives are the ones which cause the world’s imperfection. Am convinced that, these laws were not perfected in seven days when the world itself was created. Actually, they might still be under construction as we speak. This is the reason why there is no guarantee in life of the results you might get, despite whatever you do.
You might treat your spouse with much care, love and affection, only to be heart broken. You might study in very impossible environment and come out with great GPA, only to find a job given to someone not properly educated, but who just happen to have a ‘godfather’ in particular office. You might follow the Commandments your religion deems necessary for winning God’s affection, only to find some stupid crazy people ruin your life just like that with no one by your side to defend you.
Am not submitting these contentions as the quantifiable truth of life, you must not misunderstand my point. Am just saying that, according to me, saying we are imperfect due to the miseries happen to us is less sensible. We are exactly what God intended us to be, no matter what others say of us. God is all knowing and nothing is beyond his limits. If he wants us to be otherwise, he would have done it within the blink of an eye. We are perfect creatures who fit his design of making. It makes much sense for me believing that the world’s miseries happen due to the world being imperfect, not us. Everyone is perfect, but the world. For me, its much easier to live with this version, I don’t know about you.